Friday, May 23, 2008

Initiation Into Toddlerhood


This month was full of triumph and trials. Hmmmm…bad news or good news first??? Let’s start with the bad and end on a good note.

In a nutshell, Joseph has been sick with an ear infection and flu. The flu had us in the ER all-night twice, but he is now fine. It turns out after having the flu for a week his digestive system just needed help getting his metabolism back up. My skinny boy is now putting weight back on and eating like a horse, nonstop.

This experience was the first time Mike and I felt helpless as parents. Our son was not feeling well and there was nothing we could do to make him feel better. He was a trooper. We learned how strong and how much Joseph could endure at such a young age.

Our lesson learned from this whole experience:
Always keep baby-dophilus, Popsicles, and pedialyte on hand. Never second guess when your gut says something is wrong And, if you are as lucky as me…have a mom as a nurse that you can call anytime, even at 2 AM, for some good advice!!!

Yesterday Mike and I celebrated our 4 year anniversary. 9 years together, 4 years of marriage and it has been an amazing time that has gone by soooooo fast!

We figure if we can get through these past few weeks holding hands, praying, trusting God, supporting one anther, being strong in numbers, and taking it as He gives it to us - We will be just fine.
Trials only bond you tighter and appreciate and love each other more. I love you Mike…Happy Anniversary!

NOW FOR ALL THE GOOD NEWS!!!

First of all, welcome to the world Abigail Ann Jenson! We are excited about the new addition and can’t wait to hear the stories as she grows. As we are finding out, it goes so fast. Love you Abby!

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Also welcome to the world Kyra Marie Griffin. We hope to meet you this summer!

Joseph got his first haircut! I promised Mike I would cut his curls off after his first birthday. In keeping with this condition, Mike turned the shears loose after the party ended – I helped too! It wasn’t perfect, but still turned out cute. I was nervous about how he would look, but I actually prefer it short now. It helped him move from the baby look into the little boy look. I really like it. He will have curly hair just like his Uncle Joe - his hair is starting to grow back with curls.

Joseph has started to become daddy’s boy. There are many times he now prefers his daddy to his mommy. He used to have a hard time with Mike putting him to bed. And, now he loves it and there are times he goes down better for daddy than mommy. Even yesterday in the car he was sitting in the back pointing out the window at trucks saying “Daddy”

Joseph also decided to take a quick trip from his crib to the floor. All of a sudden Mike and I heard and big THUD followed by crying. Running into his room I found Joseph on the floor. Little stinker. I guess it is pay back since I was a young crib jumper as well. My mom and dad had to take me out of a crib at a pretty young age. How he climbed out, we have no idea!!! Thank goodness we had one more level to lower his crib. After this he will be in a bed. I hope this isn’t a prediction of his future as a sky diver!?!?!

We have a new word. Joseph enjoys saying “Thank you,” when you give him something. It really sounds like “Tay Q”, and is more shouted explosively through a huge grin than said, but that is close enough for me.

Brian and Becca get ready. Joseph has his dancing shoes on for your wedding!!! He has started to dance. He has perfected two dances. His “Stevie Wonder head sway” and his “Bone-Jangles” tap-dance. Oh my goodness…TOO CUTE!

Joseph’s birthday party went really well. We decided to just have family for his first birthday. I’m actually glad, as just family was even overwhelming for him. All Grandmas and Grandpas were there, my brothers and families. Joseph had some great present helpers, as his cousins helped him opened his presents. Thank you Colton, Molly, and Emily. And, thank you all for your thoughtfulness on his special day. He was spoiled!!!

I’ve taken on my Mom’s tradition of making special B-day cakes. The one thing I remember growing up was the theme cakes my mom used to make for our birthdays. This year I made my first cake, a bear. I did have some help from both my mom and mom Begley. Thank you. I think it turned out pretty good…and yes…Joseph thought it was pretty tasty!

Grandma and Grandpa. came out to visit for Joseph’s first birthday. It was nice to have them here. I enjoyed the break and they enjoyed the babysitting. They taught him a few new tricks. Believe it or not, Grandma taught Joseph to head-butt!!! She taught him an old Spanish childhood game she knows that is used to teach a child about hands, fingers, counting, and the finale is the head! “Tope Borrego” (bump the lamb) where you lightly bump heads,
Well, Joseph threw the entire game out the window and wanted only to bump heads (hard). So, if you are ever face-to-face with him and he head butts you, just know it is out of love. They also taught him to go around the house saying chooo chooo, but it come out as “gee gee gee gee gee” (and then he stomps around the house) and the smile on his face is priceless.

Mother’s Day was awesome! We took our camper out for a test drive (oh yeah, we bought a camper. I’ll tell you about that next).
We had a pic-nic about a mile behind our house with a view of Pikes Peak. Then we had a ‘Joseph sized’ hike. Joseph did not like it much as the grass grows in mounds here and it makes the ground uneven. So, it lasted about 5 minutes! But, it is a start towards the hikes we are going to take when he gets older.

Ok, the camper. Mike and I have been looking for a camper for quite some time. We just haven’t found the right one - at the right price. The week before Mike left for Alaska we found one for sale that sort of fell into our laps. This is where we will be living this summer.

Oh yeah, Mike went to Alaska for work – still convincing him we don’t need to move there just yet. You think Minnesota has mosquitoes and cold?!?! This is like Minnesota bugs and weather magnified by 100 as we would have to move the Alaskan interior! It is a beautiful place and that makes it somewhat tempting. Mike should have been born 100 years ago and married to a fur-trader ;)



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Alaska photos:

I feel like I’ve already written too much, but so much has happened!!! For sure, this is enough to catch everyone up on the past month though. I’m sure I’ve missed a thing or two to mention, but these were the main events. Oh! One more thing, Joseph now has 4 teeth…his 4 front teeth!
PICTURES:
previous blog pictures
Joseph's birthday party
April-May pictures

Happy Birthday to Abigail and My MOM, Kyra Griffin!!! There should also be a baby Johnson born in the next few days…an early congrats to Carrie and Dave.

Happy Anniversary to me and my man (WOW 4 YEARS!!!) and Aunt Laurel and Uncle Tom.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Walk Before you Run

Well, my little baby is turning into a toddler. He is growing and learning so much so fast. I love it. He is all boy. The interesting thing for me is how he likes boy things without me pushing those toys on him. We have dolls and stuffed animals in the house and he rarely plays with them. We had two really old cars from when we had visitors and he found them in the back closet and played with them immediately. He even knew that the wheel went towards the floor and he rolled them all over the house. Of course Daddy has now taught him the car noise to go with it.
Well, my May prediction has proven to be wrong. On April fools day he walked from the middle of the living room to the couch…TWICE. And, for his April fools joke, he didn’t walk again the rest of the day! “April fools you thought I was going to walk!” Every day he walks more and more. These days he rarely crawls. Lately he is trying to run to get there faster and he usually ends up throwing himself across the room. Last night Daddy gave Joseph his first sound parental words of wisdom, ”Walk before you run, Boy”.

Going backwards a bit, Easter was fun. We went to church, which was packed with standing room only. Joseph did pretty well. He had a few choice words for the congregation to hear. Then we came home and he changed and found his Easter basket the Bunny had left. It was hard to find Easter candy that wasn’t a choking hazard or chocolate, so Nilla Wafers and his favorite crackers was what the Easter Bunny delivered. YUMMY!


Later that day our neighbor, Vic, brought his tractor over. We let Joseph “drive” the tractor. You could not wipe the perma-grin off his face! He SO looked the part of a country boy with his ‘pumkin’ tooth sticking out. And speaking of tooth, the Tooth fairy must have been riding on the back of the Easter bunny. His 2nd tooth broke through on Easter. Two teeth!!!

Since the weather is getting warmer and warmer we have been doing more and more outside activities. Joseph goes outside every chance he can get. We went to the zoo in Colorado Springs, The Cheyenne Mountain Zoo. It was a very nice and sunny day. The highlight was feeding the giraffes. We are going to get a zoo membership, so I’m sure you will be seeing many more pictures of us at the zoo this coming year!



Other events:
Spring break with Molly and Emily
Naked time to take care of his first case of bad diaper rash
Spending time with Grandma
(The picture link I usually send will come in the blog about his birthday.)

This month is an extra special month for us. Joseph turns ONE!!! Goodness, can you believe it has been a year? So far, my favorite part of being a mom is watching his personality develop. He has a little bit of Mike, and a little myself, and a lot of his own uniqueness. HAPPY FIRST BIRTHDAY TO OUR SON, JOSEPH!

And for those born in April. Happy Birthday to Uncle John, Cousin Jimmy, Cousin Marc, Aunt Marilyn, Cousin Michael

Plus, Happy Anniversary to Grandma and Grandpa Begley and to Grandma and Grandpa Jenson and to Carrie and Dave.

Mike’s Contribution this week! A poem for Joseph from his Dad.

“IF”

If you can keep your head when all about youare losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, and not deal in lies, Or, being hated, and not give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master; If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with triumph and disaster and treat those two imposters just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools; Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, and stoop and build 'em up with worn out tools
If you can make one heap of all your winnings and risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss, lose, and start again at your beginnings and never breath a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew to serve your turn long after they are gone, and so hold on when there is nothing in you except the Will which says to them: "Hold on"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run.
Yours is the Earth and Everything that is in it, And - what is more – you will be a Man, my Son.

- Rudyard Kipling 1895

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Happy Easter!!!

YOWZA!!! It feels like I was just writing last months blog entry! I guess time flies when you are having fun. We have had a very full, but fun schedule this past month.
Here are the pictures we took of DC and at JJ and Dana's house. They are all mixed up. I didn't have the energy/time to put them in order! :)

Happy Birthday to those born in March! Happy Birthday Dad/Grandpa, Aunt Heather, Jaimie (the big 30), and welcome to the world Ryleigh Grace!!!

And Christy...I think it is your birthday as well. Hmmm??? Well..."Thank you for being born!"

Joseph now officially has a tooth. It is pretty cute. He has a second one coming in, but it’s taking its time like the first tooth. I’ve tried to get pictures of it, but he won’t keep his mouth open! If you are here he will gladly let you pull his lip down to see his proud tooth.

He still has not said, “Mama” but enjoys many other noises. The favorite of the week is making car noises while crawling and pushing his cars. I told him his “Mama” is more important than his cars!
(you can kind of see his tooth in this picture)
Joseph enjoys walking with assistance. He has a pushcart that he can literally run while pushing. Everyone says he will walk any day now, but I’m still predicting May as his walking month. I don’t know why I say May, but it’s the month that is stuck in my head. We will see if I’m right!

Mike went to Washington DC for business, so Joseph and I decided to tag along and stay with Grandma and Grandpa. We had a great time. We went to the National Zoo. Joseph enjoyed the noises the birds made the most, but also liked watching a baby Panda play in the tree. I thought he would like the Gorillas/Monkeys. He may have, but after seeing a gorilla lick his food off the window and then spit it back onto the window to eat again, I decided we were done. GROSS!

We also had a good visit with the Aunts and Uncles. Joe and Marilyn came down from PA and Brian and Becca came over for a visit. Joseph enjoyed hanging out with the guys. I think his high light was showing off his NASCAR noises to Uncle Joe and Brian and playing with Mosby (Brian and Becca’s dog).

Once back at home we were off to Denver. I was proud to be picked by Molly to attend her VIP day at school. I loved it. I was able to see what Molly did at school. We played house and we did a craft and we made a snack to eat. Plus, Molly did a great job at introducing me to all of her friends and her teachers.
Back home again for a few days and then off again to my Mom and Gary’s house. Their new house fits them to a ‘T’. It is everything they were looking for. Plus, for me I felt very comfortable and relaxed. It is a very nice, warm, and comfortable home.

My mom and I got ready for Saturday which was Heather’s baby shower. It was very fun…delicious chocolate covered strawberries made by Dana (you can make those for me any time)…typical shower games…and CUTE clothes for Abigail. I just can’t wait to hold her and smell the new baby smell and give her kisses. Heather is a cute pregnant lady. She is all belly.
Baby Shower pictures:

Now we are finally home. Joseph is starting to recover from his ear/sinus infection and is getting back to normal. This past week I met my friend Jaimie and her husband, Mario, for lunch. They have a daughter, Tessa that is about 2 ½ months younger than Joseph. Joseph decided to share his crackers with her. The slobbery crackers must have been yummy as she shoved the whole cracker in her mouth and enjoyed it. I think this is a baby sign for saying, “You’re pretty darn cute. Do you want some of my slobbery cracker?” It is Easter weekend and we are going to have a down weekend and just enjoy being together as a family. I have the Easter baskets made and we will dye the eggs today. Those pictures will most likely come in the next blog. Happy Easter!

THY WORD – Amy Grant

When I feel afraid
And think I’ve lost my way,
Still, you’re there right beside me.
Nothing will I fear
As long as you are near;
Please be near me to the end.
I will not forget
Your love for me and yet,
My heart forever is wandering.
Jesus be my guide,
And hold me to your side,
And I will love you till the end.
Thy word is a lamp unto my feet
And a light unto my path.
They word is a lamp unto my feet
And light unto my path.
You’re the light unto my path.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

All Hair and No Teeth

The Wee Red Headed Lad with morning hair...all hair and no teeth!!!
Life is good up here. Even in this freezing cold, we are enjoying it. This month Joseph had his first ride on a sled. Along with that came his first white wash. I really wanted to take a picture but I thought I should pick him up, as he was head down, feet up in the snow. It was something you would see in a cartoon, legs kicking in all. He is a tough boy. After wiping the cold snow off of his warm face and the tears stopped, we got back on the sled and enjoyed the sledding experience for another 20 minutes. We’ve been out since and have had a great time.

Joseph has a newfound love of apples. No, not the apple sauce, but whole apples. If you are eating an apple he will crawl over to you and wine with his hand out until you give him the apple. What is interesting is when I was pregnant with Joseph I loved apples. I ate one to three apples a day. It seems it rubbed off on Joseph. I also think he loves apples as he is still toothless and this feels really good on his gums.


What else is Joseph into? EVERYTHING!!! He can open things, throw things, tear things, and bang things. He can also walk with assistance. Mike calls it his “old lady at Wal-Mart walk.”
He refuses to eat any sort of baby food, so he is on 100% big boy food! He has also learned to clap. This goes over well when people clap in church. He thinks it is a game that needs to continue with the added screams for excitement. Everyone knows when we are at mass.
Joseph also knows when “Dada” is home. Since he has a very loud truck Joseph can hear when he is home. He begins to say, “Dada” and look around for Mike to come in the door. I don’t know how he learns this stuff. It amazes me how much he can learn.



Mike and I are doing well. We are ready for winter to end and spring to begin. We have about 1 cord of firewood left, so that should last through April, and we hope we wont need more. Winter has been light this year. Not a whole lot of snow, but plenty of cold days and nights.

If you would like to see more pictures please go to the following link: http://www.kodakgallery.com/Slideshow.jsp?Uc=evu1dtf.3az7x7if&Uy=-j3bsd8&Upost_signin=Slideshow.jsp%3Fmode%3Dfromshare&Ux=0&mode=fromshare&conn_speed=1


I missed a couple of January birthday…HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY
GRANDPA KRUEGER and AUNT ELAINE!!! Sorry we missed your birthdays.

Happy birthday to all those born in February:
Uncle Peter, Grandpa Bill, Cousin Carrie, Dave, Aunt Sherry, Juice, and Aunt Ann Cuellar